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The word "bed" signifies literary the bed that leaving man sleeps, metaphorically the grave that the dead man lies in, and symbolically a lot in life, all condition of existence the word "sleep" has corresponding meanings of sleeping, of being dead, and of having certain lot. In addition it gathers up from the last stanza the meaning of sleeping with woman, that is, of making love.
The poem at first seems cynical, suggestiong, as it does, the transiance of human loyalities. On reflection, however, few people expect a man or woman not to remarry after a first mate has died.(Housman's poem probably doesn't refer to marriage, but the principle is the same). Housman's poetry is pessimistic about man's chances for happiness, but Housman is not cynical about human courage or human virtue.